You want good sex in your life, right?
And you want it with a sexy gal who can give it to you right. Intimacy remains one of the most crucial elements in a fulfilling relationship. Before you look for a woman who is very good in bed, you also need to work on your game and fundamentals.
Develop some sexy attributes yourself. A good haircut, good teeth, put on some muscles, develop a sense of style, and handle your vibe. Be a strong man with confidence and strength of frame. Sexy women like pairing up with sexy men.
If the women you are getting are not sexy and appealing to you. It might be a reflection on your abilities as a man. They might be going for other men with what they want, so check yourself first before checking out that sexy stranger.
Anyway, even if you are not yet sexy, you can still handle a few important things from that list and just go for what you want. Work with what you have and go for it. It takes a day to get a nice haircut or change your wardrobe. It takes a week or two to learn eye contact and to smile, so some things can be handled immediately.
Once you are sexy or reasonably sexy, you want to seek out sexy available women who can turn on your nights to the maximum and give you an exhilarating experience.
Here are the signs she’s gonna be a good lay.
She Touches you First or a lot.
She is comfortable with touch and in touch with her sexuality. She is not afraid of expressing herself sexually. If she is looking at you with doe eyes, flipping her hair, and flaunting her rack all over your face, she might be the type to give you a nice experience.
She might also be shy, but very freaky, so this is not a sure sign yet. Some women engage in overt behaviors like wearing skimpy clothes, nice lipstick, and showing blatant signs of interest just to get a reaction from men. However, keep an eye on her if she is not shy about what she wants sexually.
If she is melting to your touch and touching you back and knows how to flirt and oozes sexual confidence, she is going to be very sexual. Sexual intent has to be there for her to be sexy.
She’s in Great Shape.
She can’t be sexy if she is not in good shape. Although there are exceptions. I have seen women with a little weight who are quite appealing, smell nice, and talk very sexily. They have sexy voices and know how to turn on men. However, to be incredibly sexy, she is going to be in model shape or have nice features. Think of double Ds, a tiny waist, a nice butt, and then some solid social skills.
Most strippers don’t look like models, but they are still sexy; they look appealing with sexy tattoos and dancing abilities.
She might be having a cigarette in her mouth or wearing interesting pieces of clothes that fit her well. And that’s why being in shape or decent shape is important. If her jeans fit just right on her butt and her tops just fit her upper body well, she is on the way to sexiness.
She’s Open-Minded and Adventurous
If she has no weird hang-ups and frigid attitude towards sex, she might be a good lay. She is willing to try new things with you within her comfort zone, and she has a big appetite to explore life and her body. She is not in her shell.
The sexiest women have already gone through the sexual awakening stage and are adventurous with intimacy. She wants you to take her on the beach, the parking lot, and the mountains. If she is willing to help you spice things up, then you will never have a boring sex life.
It is in her energy to explore and keep things lively. Adventurous, open-minded people are vivacious and bombastic, and that’s an element of sexiness. A gal who is radiant and full of life will be a good experience for you.
What is not sexy
A gal who is depressed and looks down on her luck is not sexy.
A bitter person with a defeatist mindset is not alluring.
Any form of negativity, poor self-image, or body image is a turn-off.
Bad fashion and hygiene etc.
I don’t want to go on about what is not sexy; anything opposite of what I mentioned as sexy is unsexy. For men, if you want to know if a man is sexy, just check out this article. I am not the best to judge men’s sexiness.
I had a very sexy father, though. I could see from his fashion and mannerism, and how the women would be excited by him. I had a beautiful mother, but as for sexiness, I learned that from my father. I didn’t have to struggle with mastering sexiness because I grew up around some very sexy men.
Master this crucial element of attractiveness, and you will attract these sexy babes who will rock your world and bed.
All the best.
Nice weekend.
