July 8, 2022

Killer Texting Tips from Stretch

Back in 2014, I watched a movie called ‘stretch’ that revolved around a guy called Kevin who also goes by the name of stretch, a limousine […]
May 19, 2022

The Truth Doesn’t Hurt, it is Uncomfortable

I have heard it a million times, the truth hurts but does it? Or is the truth just uncomfortable? I am sure you have had people […]
April 1, 2022

Character Development (Personality Don’t Change)

A lot has been going around on character development, a bunch of scorned exes feels like their former partner turned sour on them abruptly at some […]
March 18, 2022

Vulnerable Women, It Would Help If You Didn’t Sleep With (Lest You Become a Heart breaker)

As a seductive man with a tight game and desirable attributes, tons of women will be attracted to you. And apparently, there are moral reasons why […]
March 14, 2022

Forest Hill Drive (Boda Boda Guys are a Menace to the Kenyan Society)

The incident happened on Forest Road, let me call it Forest Hill Drive, it is an album by J. Cole that I am a big fan […]
January 21, 2022

Bad boys Free Women

Don’t call 911 yet. No bad boy is holding a helpless princess captive. It is just a headline for an interesting article. Set a bird free […]
December 31, 2021

Lessons from 2021 (The Fastest Year in History)

While I was reviewing 2020, it was a bad time due to the pandemic. There were curfews and lots of frustrations due to challenges brought by […]
November 28, 2021

“I Will Hurt You” is a Genuine Concern

I know a guy who says “I am scared of soft women, I might hurt them”. Or another line “I won’t sleep with a woman if […]
September 24, 2021

What Makes a Man Boring?

Well, if you’ve ever been called dull of a man you know how it sucks. It is not a good word to describe a person. However, […]
September 19, 2021

Movie Review (Coming 2 America)

I didn’t watch the first ‘Coming to America’ till the end but that does not stop me from reviewing the second one. I have reviewed Game […]
September 9, 2021

It’s okay to call Yourself a Freelancer

What is the fuss all about anyway, in the blogs and all over LinkedIn it is not advisable to call yourself a freelancer or a free […]
September 4, 2021

Take it or Leave it (Ultimatums Sucks)

Hate or love it. Love me or leave me alone. Only God can Judge me. It is this way or the Highway. You are either with […]
August 26, 2021

Touching Your Way Around Women

Dominant men touch. “Don’t be scared of touching her” that’s what a female director once told me when I was once on a set with another […]
August 14, 2021

Should you Stick to Your Circle?

Hell no. what for? In fact, don’t join a circle, it will limit your worldview. Try to get into different social circles and see how different […]
August 14, 2021

‘How to Make love’ is Kenyans’ Most Searched Question

Well, it seems Kenyans have been having a problem between the sheets for the past 15 years according to Google. I have always underestimated sex but […]
July 22, 2021

Neediness is the Biggest Attraction Killer

We have been raised to help the needy but that doesn’t translate to dating. I believe in contributing to charity if it is a good cause, […]
July 16, 2021

Boys’ Locker Room Talk

Talking about boys locker room talk is a no-no, it is a brotherly talk that is not always supposed to get out there but it does […]
July 2, 2021

A Neat Freak and a Dirty

Studies show that relationships are rocky when the male is too tidy. Do women like clean men? Not as much as you think. She might prefer […]
June 11, 2021

5 Controversial Topics to Avoid on a First Date

Controversy is good for the news and click baits, but not just for a date, more so the first date. It is not the time to […]
June 2, 2021

Are you Hard to get Through?

Do you have your walls up high? The brick walls. Don’t let your guard down. Let your hair down. Are you a tough nut to crack? […]
May 21, 2021
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The Healing Power of Tantric Massage

I came across Lingam massage as I was writing about therapy for a client of mine, and I thought about its magical healing power for men. […]
May 5, 2021

The Gates are Open

Since Bill and Melinda Gates filed for a divorce the other day, everyone is claiming to be open to a relationship with one of them. Their […]
May 3, 2021

The Average Joe (the man you don’t want to be)

Don’t be that guy is a common phrase among men when advising each other, but the one guy you don’t want to be is the average […]
April 23, 2021

Tough Guy Vibe (How to Create one)

It is good being a super tough guy. Men will tremble in front of you, and women will weaken in your presence. Okay, not necessarily, especially […]
March 26, 2021

High-Value Men are 10s plus

It is everywhere; on YouTube, dating blogs, and all relationship columns talk about being a high-value man and how that is what the ladies want. But […]
March 11, 2021

When your ex gets Better than you

Well, it happens a lot. I was once listening to a talk show, and the host said, “Honestly speaking no one wants to see their ex […]
February 26, 2021

100 Percent Responsibility

They say it’s impossible to have absolute control over a situation. There is stuff you can’t control, but you need to assume full responsibility if you […]
February 9, 2021

Valentines’ Tips for People in Open Relationships

It is coming and it’s hot. It will also be cold for those single souls. Well, Valentine’s is a day like any other but this one […]
February 1, 2021

Low Tolerance vs. High Tolerance in Addictions

How much of something foreign can you consume before you say that is enough? Or you can go on till you are addicted to it. I […]
January 19, 2021

When can Women Approach men?

I had written about women approaching men in the past when the blog was still new; however, I was listening to a podcast about guys wanting […]
February 27, 2020

Nairobi’s Neighborhoods with the Funniest Names

I was watching the Irishman and there was a scene played in Little Italy, a small spot in New York. And I was thinking why is […]
February 26, 2020

The Manosphere is Tired of Boring Sex Tapes

There are a lot of sex tapes leaking of late, and none of them is good. There ain’t nothing new in these tapes that we haven’t […]
February 13, 2020

Beautiful people who don’t even know it

They don’t even know what they have. Or they know but chose to ignore it. Some are modest. They hide every part of their body in […]
February 10, 2020

Depression might be new cancer for young men

I don’t know if that heading makes sense, what I want to put across is that depression is like the new killer, especially among young men. […]