November 28, 2021

“I Will Hurt You” is a Genuine Concern

I know a guy who says “I am scared of soft women, I might hurt them”. Or another line “I won’t sleep with a woman if […]
September 24, 2021

What Makes a Man Boring?

Well, if you’ve ever been called dull of a man you know how it sucks. It is not a good word to describe a person. However, […]
September 19, 2021

Movie Review (Coming 2 America)

I didn’t watch the first ‘Coming to America’ till the end but that does not stop me from reviewing the second one. I have reviewed Game […]
September 9, 2021

It’s okay to call Yourself a Freelancer

What is the fuss all about anyway, in the blogs and all over LinkedIn it is not advisable to call yourself a freelancer or a free […]
September 4, 2021

Take it or Leave it (Ultimatums Sucks)

Hate or love it. Love me or leave me alone. Only God can Judge me. It is this way or the Highway. You are either with […]
August 26, 2021

Touching Your Way Around Women

Dominant men touch. “Don’t be scared of touching her” that’s what a female director once told me when I was once on a set with another […]
August 14, 2021

Should you Stick to Your Circle?

Hell no. what for? In fact, don’t join a circle, it will limit your worldview. Try to get into different social circles and see how different […]
August 14, 2021

‘How to Make love’ is Kenyans’ Most Searched Question

Well, it seems Kenyans have been having a problem between the sheets for the past 15 years according to Google. I have always underestimated sex but […]
July 22, 2021

Neediness is the Biggest Attraction Killer

We have been raised to help the needy but that doesn’t translate to dating. I believe in contributing to charity if it is a good cause, […]
July 16, 2021

Boys’ Locker Room Talk

Talking about boys locker room talk is a no-no, it is a brotherly talk that is not always supposed to get out there but it does […]
July 2, 2021

A Neat Freak and a Dirty

Studies show that relationships are rocky when the male is too tidy. Do women like clean men? Not as much as you think. She might prefer […]
June 11, 2021

5 Controversial Topics to Avoid on a First Date

Controversy is good for the news and click baits, but not just for a date, more so the first date. It is not the time to […]
June 2, 2021

Are you Hard to get Through?

Do you have your walls up high? The brick walls. Don’t let your guard down. Let your hair down. Are you a tough nut to crack? […]
May 21, 2021
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The Healing Power of Tantric Massage

I came across Lingam massage as I was writing about therapy for a client of mine, and I thought about its magical healing power for men. […]
May 5, 2021

The Gates are Open

Since Bill and Melinda Gates filed for a divorce the other day, everyone is claiming to be open to a relationship with one of them. Their […]
May 3, 2021

The Average Joe (the man you don’t want to be)

Don’t be that guy is a common phrase among men when advising each other, but the one guy you don’t want to be is the average […]
April 23, 2021

Tough Guy Vibe (How to Create one)

It is good being a super tough guy. Men will tremble in front of you, and women will weaken in your presence. Okay, not necessarily, especially […]
March 26, 2021

High-Value Men are 10s plus

It is everywhere; on YouTube, dating blogs, and all relationship columns talk about being a high-value man and how that is what the ladies want. But […]
March 11, 2021

When your ex gets Better than you

Well, it happens a lot. I was once listening to a talk show, and the host said, “Honestly speaking no one wants to see their ex […]
February 26, 2021

100 Percent Responsibility

They say it’s impossible to have absolute control over a situation. There is stuff you can’t control, but you need to assume full responsibility if you […]
February 9, 2021

Valentines’ Tips for People in Open Relationships

It is coming and it’s hot. It will also be cold for those single souls. Well, Valentine’s is a day like any other but this one […]
February 1, 2021

Low Tolerance vs. High Tolerance in Addictions

How much of something foreign can you consume before you say that is enough? Or you can go on till you are addicted to it. I […]
January 19, 2021

When can Women Approach men?

I had written about women approaching men in the past when the blog was still new; however, I was listening to a podcast about guys wanting […]
January 6, 2021

Lessons from 2020 (The Craziest Year of the Century)

I don’t know about you but even the most optimistic person can say that last year was a rough ride. I have never seen a year […]
December 29, 2020

Simple New Year Goals you can make as a Man

For your new year goals, you want something easily achievable; realistic, simple, and measurable, you can use analytics to track your goals if you are that […]
December 21, 2020

Digital Well-being (Staying Healthy Online)

Due to the explosion of information on the internet and the increasing number of social media apps, there is a term to safeguard users from spending […]
December 1, 2020

If you ever go Broke, be Sober!

Everything else can go wrong, but not your mind. If you are sane and with a clear mind, you can at least think fast, figure things […]
November 28, 2020

Maradona’s Legacy (Football Lives on with Team Tailors and Kulundeng’ Original Fiesta)

During the 2010 world cup, Maradona said he will walk naked on the streets if Argentina wins the World Cup, as a straight man I was […]
November 19, 2020

Surveillance tips Women use to dig out Information About Men (and How to Cover your Tracks)

Even if you have nothing to hide, it is not advisable to be open, especially with a woman; you don’t tell a woman everything. You tell […]
November 16, 2020

Full Potential (No Limit)

I have talked about ‘too much of something good’ before when I wrote on overconfidence. Now what I want to write about is being just too […]
September 30, 2020

69 Was Just a Good Number

I blame Tekashi for giving 69 a bad name. Do you know how many brands are related to 69? He destroyed that number. 69 is like […]
September 29, 2020

How to take an L

There will always be losses and wins in this life. Even the best team in football doesn’t always win the champions league or super bowl. You […]
September 26, 2020

Short man Syndrome (Height is Just a Number)

It is also known as the ‘Napoleon complex’. It is a belief that short men make up for the lack of height by being extra-assertive in […]
September 25, 2020

The Easiest Money Ever Made

It is common for hustlers to look at other peoples’ jobs and feel like they are making easy money. When you see a Dj playing music […]