OnlyFans is one of the biggest ‘dating’ or, rather, lewd technological inventions of this century. Smartphone technology, dating apps, and open internet access have taken the oldest profession to another level.
I know of entrepreneurs who have made their fortune from creating webcam businesses, and they made a killing. As someone in the creative industry with a background in technology, I would consider a good niche, or rather a peculiar idea that works just fine.
Before OnlyFans, guys were having phone sex and sex chatting or only sharing nudes through chats. But OnlyFans took it to another level; any gal who ever wanted to be a stripper or nude model can now easily open an account and run her show. And hope they make money from it.
If you want a porn career, you can easily create an account and get started as an amateur pornstar and earn the stripes.
I consider it a low-barrier-to-entry profession. You just need a good setting, with proper lighting and a good camera, and get on with the show. You’ve got to be sexy and alluring so that you can attract the biggest following.
Whether it is immoral or bad for society is not my call. The movies coming out and the series we watch have so many lewd scenes that OnlyFans cannot be blamed for corrupting people’s morals. The society is already rotten.
Now back to the topic I wanted to discuss, whether you should date a webcam model or a gal with an OnlyFans account. It all boils down to what you want or your comfort level.
If you are a free spirit who doesn’t mind sharing your woman with the world, then go ahead and date her. Don’t judge her for trying to make a living.
If she’s making a living out of it, well, a gal got to do what a gal got to do. Who are we to judge?
Did she hide from you that she has an OnlyFans account? If she didn’t, then you knew what she is all about from the gates. Just embrace it.
This is not different from dating a stripper or a porn actress. These women are honest about what they do. And many men are willing to accept their hustles.
Don’t say she trapped you or she tricked you into dating her. It is not trickin’ when she dances or strips for the dollar; she is just doing her job, and like any other human, she still needs some love. And you happen to be her lover.
One thing with these gals in the sex industry is that sometimes they give good sex. If you are a man not accustomed to getting good sex and she manages to lure you into her bed, or you seduce her to your chambers, she might get you hooked on her honey pot.
You think you can resist a stripper or a sexy woman who knows how to push the right buttons in a man? Don’t delude yourself. If she is an experienced charmer who knows how to strut her stuff, move her body, or ride sideways, you will be snatched up. Never to be found again.
I won’t advise you to date such a gal, though, but who am I to stop you from adventuring? If you think you can handle such a gal, then go ahead and have all the fun.
You can make a sex tape together.
She might ask you to create ‘adult content’ together while in a relationship because that’s her job, and you are her guy. Instead of letting her shoot content with another guy, let her bring you onboard.
Like with every relationship, there is a reason people like dating someone from their field or someone who understands their world. An actor will only date an actress or a producer because they fully understand the challenge of dating someone who doesn’t understand their world.
You only need to understand her world and embrace it. The challenge is that most men think they won’t be jealous, or they are men enough to take what comes with dating a porn star or a woman in the adult entertainment field. Only to get overly jealous and pathetic when they see her with other men.
Yes, they are sexy or might even be charming and intelligent, but be ready for the rollercoaster of emotions and competition from other men. They have specialized in using their body to make money, and they might give you a good roll in the hay, but the drama and craziness they might come with is just way too much. Take the good with the bad.
I know you know that a gal with such a career is not likely suitable for the long term. So don’t make babies with her or try to reform her; it will be an uphill task.
When I talk of gals who sell their sex appeal online, it is a majority. This includes gals who expose too much flesh on IG, FB, or TikTok. A gal once told me she once posted her feet on a site where people with foot fetish can go and pay to look at people’s feet, and she made around $30 from exposing just her feet online.
Men out here are crazy and are willing to pay for anything, even to see a gal sleeping. So don’t blame women for taking advantage of these desperate, weak-willed men who pay women for having feet or arms.
I was not shocked by the ‘feet model’ gal. I work in marketing, and sometimes, you just need a shot of nice fingers or legs for a product. So foot modelling, hand modelling, webcam stripping, and actual stripping are all jobs you can make money from. Just keep in mind that they are careers that attract certain crazy archetypes.
Yes, the women in these fields might be sexy but also nut cases. If you don’t mind a sexy nut, who is Slade to tell you not to date them?
Happy Holidays.
Slade.
