Your esteem can be low but your confidence is high. Your esteem can be high but your confidence is low. Maybe, maybe not. These are kissing cousins. They are very much related and not far from each other. Esteem comes with a feeling of worthiness and being in control of your life. Confidence is based… Continue reading Is High Self-esteem Co-related to High Confidence?

There are a lot of baby mamas nowadays, it is becoming normalcy to have one. And as a young man starting to date you can be tempted to have one also or marry one or date one. Well, we all know or suspect that having a baby mama is not the perfect setup for bringing… Continue reading Should you Date a Baby Mama or Marry One or Have One

I watched a conversation online and a certain comedian commented that he thinks men nowadays don’t like women as much and in fact men are going their own way (MGTOW). He lamented that most men nag and complain when they are told to do certain attractive things to attract women, he says they don’t want… Continue reading Do Men Nowadays Still Like Women?

Sometimes gals can object to a date plan with things along the line of “that is not what we agreed upon” or “it is a first date and we can’t do that” or “it doesn’t work like that”. This happens a lot when you don’t clearly state what kind of date you will have with… Continue reading When she Says “It Doesn’t work Like That”

Do you I mean side chick reigns? No she doesn’t. If she ruled she would be the main chick, the queen. But she doesn’t so she is a side chic. One of the first articles I wrote on this blog that gave me a bit of notoriety in the blogging space was Side Guy Rules.… Continue reading Side Chick Rules

In as much as I am a millennial, I am also a gen z since I am a zilllennial. Generation Z thinks they are better off and more knowledgeable and bolder than other generations. In my country, the Gen Z community thinks we are in dipshit because the previous generations didn’t do things right in… Continue reading Is Dating a Gen Z Different from Other Generations

Call it vanity or whatever but a lady’s life can change when she grows some ass. And a man’s life can change when he grows some balls. Should a lady get butt-lift injections to develop their posterior? I like some good ass just like the next man. And women being image-conscious and insecure about their… Continue reading Brazilian Butt Lift Vs Natural (Big Butt Big Life)

If you live in the third world, it is common across the analogy that depression is for the rich and not a health problem common in the ghetto or tough neighborhoods. When you read online articles and journals, you come across similar sentiments that people struggling to survive don’t have the luxury of being depressed.… Continue reading Is Depression a ‘Luxury’ of the Rich

I have come across countless videos on the internet of men claiming a majority of inmates ended up in the joint because of women. Crimes of passion.  I am not a jailbird and I can’t know the motivation behind committing a crime but that’s an interesting perspective I would love to explore. There is a… Continue reading Are Most Men in Prison Because of Women? 

You can be broke when dating and pull it off, but being cheap doesn’t always look good on you. On the other hand, indulging in overspending and buying overpriced items to prove you are not broke is not a wise thing to engage in. There’s a delicate balance between being broke and cheap you can… Continue reading Cheap Habits that Kill Your Vibe in Dating