I watched a conversation online and a certain comedian commented that he thinks men nowadays don’t like women as much and in fact men are going their own way (MGTOW). He lamented that most men nag and complain when they are told to do certain attractive things to attract women, he says they don’t want to;
Dress nice
Smell good
Spend money
Take care of women financially
Lead and remain in control
Get a fresh haircut etc
That’s quite an accurate observation to some extent. It seems men are quitting the game and turning into incels. What is causing men to drop out of the game and live a life of bitterness and involuntary celibacy?
Men are getting discouraged easily by the demands and expectations of the modern woman. Most men feel like the modern woman is a bit too materialistic and difficult to deal with. This is not a solid reason because most women are still realistic with their expectations and if a man is to look keenly, he can still find a woman worth dating and spending quality time with.
If it is everybody else, then you might be the problem. If you find every woman to be a pain in the ass, then you might be entitled or choosing problematic women.
Let me say that many men are still interested in women, and despite the information online on how to court women, most men have become too docile and lazy to put into practice some of the dating lessons by reputable dating coaches.
If you are a man who feels like quitting the game, I suggest you find good dating information online from credible dating coaches who know what they are talking about and learn the fundamentals of dating. You don’t need to be a Casanova to get laid or find a girlfriend you are satisfied with.
You can find information that you can use to get cool chics you will be happy with. Life goes on my brother, people won’t stop dating because you quit. Women will always be available to the men who take action not the quitters. Whatever your reasons for quitting are, nobody cares about that. If you quit to go back to school to learn a few skills or to focus on business for a while, that’s fine and understandable. However, if you rage quit because it got hard, just know that it is not easy for other men either. Find dating information that will be easy to use and won’t be difficult for you.
Identify dating environments you are comfortable with such as social circle or the club and find a dating instructor who specializes in that niche. You will have to put in some work, there is no other way. Even if you decide to use money to get women, you will have to work for that money first before flaunting it.
Once you’ve done that and can find success in that field, now you can transition to uncomfortable environments that seem intimidating to you. Once you have found a little success in something, you will have the energy to keep trying to get good at it because you are confident you can do it based on past results.
Women are an inescapable part of a man’s life. They are necessary evils if you ask me. A man who starts learning to deal with women will be disgusted, even bitter at first but if he can fight those initial bad feelings and force himself to empathize with women till he understands them and finds success with them, he will be happy he hang on when it got challenging. He will begin to appreciate women more for the good things they can bring to a man’s life. The right woman can be a blessing to a man, that’s one thing the bible is right about in dating. A crazy one can cause chaos, but even the crazy ones can teach you a few things about dating and the importance of being with a virtuous one.
No matter what, don’t quit, and don’t be bitter about women. They are just cute, sometimes silly and goofy but they are a gift to mankind. You also have your bullshit and people bear with you so be patient with women and court them despite their shortcomings and drama.
Women are out there waiting for men willing to play to game them and bring multiple orgasms to their boring lives. May you be that one man who is bold and still willing to play despite the noise and nonsense the emotional and weak men who have quit the game believe about women and dating.
You are the man.
Slade!