I wanted to call it a simple trick for talking to strange women but I avoided using the word ‘trick’. It is not a trick when you try to talk to new women you meet as you go about your day. I hope you’ve started your year well and are ready to elevate your game with women in 2025. If you are a young man struggling with anxiety when meeting new women, this simple technique will help you ease up and learn how to talk to new women.
It is an indirect approach but it will work. This is a simple tactic, I learned it around 12 years ago from a dating newsletter I used to read.
Simply put, learn to talk to women by approaching women who are paid to speak to you. Read that again, there are women who are already paid to talk to you but it seems you are not talking to them.
There are several companies that pay women to go out and talk to people and sell their products for them but it seems you are not talking to them. And here we are talking about in no particular order waitresses, activation gals, promo gals, and even strippers. I would also include gals who do surveys and marketing research for companies. Sales ladies can also be included in the list.
If you don’t party, your pool is limited to activation girls and promo gals. Striking a conversation with these gals is simple. When you are out and about shopping in supermarkets or shopping malls, you are likely to notice them dressed in bright clothes with a company badge, they are always in stands selling products you use every day.
Most of these activation gals open you themselves so you don’t have to even bother how to start talking to them. However, if you have approach anxiety, I would advise you to be the one to open them and chat them on what they are selling.
You will be coming in indirectly when you ask them about their products and also tell them about your experience with that particular product if you use it. Don’t be afraid to flirt with them and ask them if they are single. This will do a few things for you. Most of these gals tend to be in a happy mood and are always smiling at people. They can put you in a good mood and build your momentum to talk to a few strangers as you go about your day.
Make a habit of doing this every single day and your world will open up, you will discover that women are just people like you and they like meeting new cool guys who are not out to hustle them or harm them. I am sure you have seen guys on TikTok walking around interviewing gals and random people on the streets and it just goes well, nothing bad ever happens.
Most people are just like you, looking to bond and create some beautiful memories of their day as they go about their lives so don’t be in so much in your head as you go about your daily activities. Notice what is around you, the gals around you, and the signals they are putting out, and make an effort to strike up a conversation with that cute stranger.
She might have been your wife/girlfriend.
The gal you ignored might have been your wife. That is also another lesson I learned from that dating newsletter I used to read many moons ago. It had a lot of pure gems which I now resonate with as my skill with people and women has improved.
The gal you couldn’t gather the courage to talk to might have been a valuable addition to your life. Even if she won’t be your wife or girlfriend, she would have taught you something about socializing with people. This is a skill like any other that you practice and hone the more you do it.
Recap
Women and people in sales are very good with people because they cant close deals if they are bad with people, their livelihoods depend on it so if you talk to them you can learn a few things about conversation. Make a mental note of talking to these women who are paid to talk to you this year and you will improve a little bit on your game.
Happy New Year. And happy new women in your life!
Slade.
