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The man leads, and the lady follows. That’s the nature of any respectable courtship. But the roles get reversed in certain situations. There are moments when it is okay for the lady to ask a man out. That’s what we want to look at in this article. When you have a gal chasing after you… Continue reading 3 Occasions When the girl Asks you out on a Date as a Man

This is one of those million-dollar questions in dating. Anything that involves payment, passion, and love is usually a sensitive matter that ought to be approached carefully. If love doesn’t cost a thing or money can’t buy love, why would we pay for a partner? The bride price is practically paying for a wife. There’s… Continue reading Should You Pay a Bride Price as a Young Man in Love?

We already know porn is not a reflection of a normal healthy sexual encounter between a man and a woman. It is destructive to young men’s mindset on sex but we keep watching thinking we can learn a thing or two from it. The same way we keep watching wrestling to learn a few fighting techniques… Continue reading 6 Ways Porn is Distorting your Sexuality as a Young Man

Raw genetic beauty is inborn but sexiness is a different animal you can learn to be. I once wrote in an article where I was talking about a liking I have for pets, especially dogs with cute-ugly look. Those dogs that have ugly faces but look so adorable. Later on, I read a newsletter by… Continue reading You Can Be Ugly Yet Very Sexy

Your esteem can be low but your confidence is high. Your esteem can be high but your confidence is low. Maybe, maybe not. These are kissing cousins. They are very much related and not far from each other. Esteem comes with a feeling of worthiness and being in control of your life. Confidence is based… Continue reading Is High Self-esteem Co-related to High Confidence?

There are a lot of baby mamas nowadays, it is becoming normalcy to have one. And as a young man starting to date you can be tempted to have one also or marry one or date one. Well, we all know or suspect that having a baby mama is not the perfect setup for bringing… Continue reading Should you Date a Baby Mama or Marry One or Have One

I watched a conversation online and a certain comedian commented that he thinks men nowadays don’t like women as much and in fact men are going their own way (MGTOW). He lamented that most men nag and complain when they are told to do certain attractive things to attract women, he says they don’t want… Continue reading Do Men Nowadays Still Like Women?

Sometimes gals can object to a date plan with things along the line of “that is not what we agreed upon” or “it is a first date and we can’t do that” or “it doesn’t work like that”. This happens a lot when you don’t clearly state what kind of date you will have with… Continue reading When she Says “It Doesn’t work Like That”

Do you I mean side chick reigns? No she doesn’t. If she ruled she would be the main chick, the queen. But she doesn’t so she is a side chic. One of the first articles I wrote on this blog that gave me a bit of notoriety in the blogging space was Side Guy Rules.… Continue reading Side Chick Rules

In as much as I am a millennial, I am also a gen z since I am a zilllennial. Generation Z thinks they are better off and more knowledgeable and bolder than other generations. In my country, the Gen Z community thinks we are in dipshit because the previous generations didn’t do things right in… Continue reading Is Dating a Gen Z Different from Other Generations