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Studies show that relationships are rocky when the male is too tidy. Do women like clean men? Not as much as you think. She might prefer a dirty man as opposed to a clean chap. A former lecturer once pointed out to us that when a man is too clean, the affair is bound to… Continue reading A Neat Freak and a Dirty

I came across Lingam massage as I was writing about therapy for a client of mine, and I thought about its magical healing power for men. Tantric massage, also called lingam massage, involves stimulating male genitals, not to achieve orgasmic pleasure but to free men off sexual shame. It can also help heal sexual traumas,… Continue reading The Healing Power of Tantric Massage

Don’t be that guy is a common phrase among men when advising each other, but the one guy you don’t want to be is the average Joe. For ladies, it is the plain Jane. The normal chic. When the blog was new my bio read “I am your boy next door”. And for sure, I… Continue reading The Average Joe (the man you don’t want to be)

Well, it happens a lot. I was once listening to a talk show, and the host said, “Honestly speaking no one wants to see their ex move to a better person or get richer”. I felt different towards that; I don’t feel like an ex or people I fell out with should be doing badly.… Continue reading When your ex gets Better than you

They say it’s impossible to have absolute control over a situation. There is stuff you can’t control, but you need to assume full responsibility if you want to improve in whatever you are pursuing. That sounds like some tough love to me. And I am not so much into tough love, heck I am not… Continue reading 100 Percent Responsibility

Due to the explosion of information on the internet and the increasing number of social media apps, there is a term to safeguard users from spending too much on social media and gadgets, and that is digital well-being i.e if you want to sleep early, stay off your WhatsApp and laptop by a certain time… Continue reading Digital Well-being (Staying Healthy Online)

The most real James Bond actor Sean Connery passed away over the weekend in his sleep in the Bahamas. The guy was 90 and had lived the perfect life according to my friends’ description. They even said it is wasn’t a sad death considering that he had achieved all the success and passed all the… Continue reading Immortal Bond (Rest in Peace Sean)

The new breed of rappers has been considered sweet, as opposed to the OGs who were said to be hard. It is said that rap is soft nowadays. Well, all that bad boy vibe that rappers had back in the days was not making them money and they had to transition into a more general… Continue reading Sweet and Sour

I blame Tekashi for giving 69 a bad name. Do you know how many brands are related to 69? He destroyed that number. 69 is like 23. Michael Jordan wore 23 and LeBron wear 23. They made that number legendary. VAT is 69, and one of the most favorite positions to be in a relationship… Continue reading 69 Was Just a Good Number

It is also known as the ‘Napoleon complex’. It is a belief that short men make up for the lack of height by being extra-assertive in life. Well, the short men in my life are very successful but quick to anger also. They say heightism is real but women like them short men, I mean… Continue reading Short man Syndrome (Height is Just a Number)