Do you have your walls up high? The brick walls. Don’t let your guard down. Let your hair down. Are you a tough nut to crack? I am not easy to get to. Are you hard to please? Come harder, this won’t be easy. These are common phrases that describe difficult people or rather those… Continue reading Are you Hard to get Through?
The Healing Power of Tantric Massage
I came across Lingam massage as I was writing about therapy for a client of mine, and I thought about its magical healing power for men. Tantric massage, also called lingam massage, involves stimulating male genitals, not to achieve orgasmic pleasure but to free men off sexual shame. It can also help heal sexual traumas,… Continue reading The Healing Power of Tantric Massage
The Gates are Open
Since Bill and Melinda Gates filed for a divorce the other day, everyone is claiming to be open to a relationship with one of them. Their DMs are finally opened for the gold rush. Everyone wants to enter those gates. I didn’t know ladies like Bill gates like that. He is very old, to begin… Continue reading The Gates are Open
The Average Joe (the man you don’t want to be)
Don’t be that guy is a common phrase among men when advising each other, but the one guy you don’t want to be is the average Joe. For ladies, it is the plain Jane. The normal chic. When the blog was new my bio read “I am your boy next door”. And for sure, I… Continue reading The Average Joe (the man you don’t want to be)
Tough Guy Vibe (How to Create one)
It is good being a super tough guy. Men will tremble in front of you, and women will weaken in your presence. Okay, not necessarily, especially for the latter; women are attracted to powerful men, not necessarily tough guys. Being a tough man is suitable for the former reason. Men will think twice before trying… Continue reading Tough Guy Vibe (How to Create one)
High-Value Men are 10s plus
It is everywhere; on YouTube, dating blogs, and all relationship columns talk about being a high-value man and how that is what the ladies want. But value, just like many things, is subjective. The primary definition is that a man of value or rather the worthiness of a man is in his productivity and how… Continue reading High-Value Men are 10s plus
When your ex gets Better than you
Well, it happens a lot. I was once listening to a talk show, and the host said, “Honestly speaking no one wants to see their ex move to a better person or get richer”. I felt different towards that; I don’t feel like an ex or people I fell out with should be doing badly.… Continue reading When your ex gets Better than you
100 Percent Responsibility
They say it’s impossible to have absolute control over a situation. There is stuff you can’t control, but you need to assume full responsibility if you want to improve in whatever you are pursuing. That sounds like some tough love to me. And I am not so much into tough love, heck I am not… Continue reading 100 Percent Responsibility
Valentines’ Tips for People in Open Relationships
It is coming and it’s hot. It will also be cold for those single souls. Well, Valentine’s is a day like any other but this one looks different, it shall be on a Sunday. I don’t know how this valentines’ fell on a Sunday but that is it, sometimes it happens. My weekends tend to… Continue reading Valentines’ Tips for People in Open Relationships
Low Tolerance vs. High Tolerance in Addictions
How much of something foreign can you consume before you say that is enough? Or you can go on till you are addicted to it. I talked to some guys about alcohol abuse and how guys get addicted, and they told me it is about your tolerance. And they said you either have a high… Continue reading Low Tolerance vs. High Tolerance in Addictions
