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While I was reviewing 2020, it was a bad time due to the pandemic. There were curfews and lots of frustrations due to challenges brought by Covid on people’s businesses and careers. Anyway, we are over it now, we got used to remote work and partial lock downs. And we also got vaccinated. One good… Continue reading Lessons from 2021 (The Fastest Year in History)

Well, if you’ve ever been called dull of a man you know how it sucks. It is not a good word to describe a person. However, before I move on to what makes someone boring I would want to point out that normal, well-balanced people are rather boring. Normalcy and predictability are what you would… Continue reading What Makes a Man Boring?

I didn’t watch the first ‘Coming to America’ till the end but that does not stop me from reviewing the second one. I have reviewed Game of Thrones in the past so let’ see about this. I have to review this one because it is comical in the plot and the actions. I run a… Continue reading Movie Review (Coming 2 America)

Dominant men touch. “Don’t be scared of touching her” that’s what a female director once told me when I was once on a set with another female actress. I was playing a scene where I was required to touch the actress and I must confess women love touching. I thought I was touching her enough… Continue reading Touching Your Way Around Women

Talking about boys locker room talk is a no-no, it is a brotherly talk that is not always supposed to get out there but it does sometimes. That is quite unfortunate since your entire clan can be ashamed of what you hide in your subconscious when locker room talks leaks to the public. It can’t… Continue reading Boys’ Locker Room Talk

Studies show that relationships are rocky when the male is too tidy. Do women like clean men? Not as much as you think. She might prefer a dirty man as opposed to a clean chap. A former lecturer once pointed out to us that when a man is too clean, the affair is bound to… Continue reading A Neat Freak and a Dirty

I came across Lingam massage as I was writing about therapy for a client of mine, and I thought about its magical healing power for men. Tantric massage, also called lingam massage, involves stimulating male genitals, not to achieve orgasmic pleasure but to free men off sexual shame. It can also help heal sexual traumas,… Continue reading The Healing Power of Tantric Massage

Don’t be that guy is a common phrase among men when advising each other, but the one guy you don’t want to be is the average Joe. For ladies, it is the plain Jane. The normal chic. When the blog was new my bio read “I am your boy next door”. And for sure, I… Continue reading The Average Joe (the man you don’t want to be)

Well, it happens a lot. I was once listening to a talk show, and the host said, “Honestly speaking no one wants to see their ex move to a better person or get richer”. I felt different towards that; I don’t feel like an ex or people I fell out with should be doing badly.… Continue reading When your ex gets Better than you

They say it’s impossible to have absolute control over a situation. There is stuff you can’t control, but you need to assume full responsibility if you want to improve in whatever you are pursuing. That sounds like some tough love to me. And I am not so much into tough love, heck I am not… Continue reading 100 Percent Responsibility