Well, it seems Kenyans have been having a problem between the sheets for the past 15 years according to Google. I have always underestimated sex but now it is clear that it is an extraordinarily crucial part of life. Do you mean for over a decade the only problem Kenyans have is bad sex? I… Continue reading ‘How to Make love’ is Kenyans’ Most Searched Question
Neediness is the Biggest Attraction Killer
We have been raised to help the needy but that doesn’t translate to dating. I believe in contributing to charity if it is a good cause, you can contribute to orphanages, medical help funds etc. However, many people loathe street beggars who have two hands and the strength to work. It is embarrassing. And you… Continue reading Neediness is the Biggest Attraction Killer
Boys’ Locker Room Talk
Talking about boys locker room talk is a no-no, it is a brotherly talk that is not always supposed to get out there but it does sometimes. That is quite unfortunate since your entire clan can be ashamed of what you hide in your subconscious when locker room talks leaks to the public. It can’t… Continue reading Boys’ Locker Room Talk
A Neat Freak and a Dirty
Studies show that relationships are rocky when the male is too tidy. Do women like clean men? Not as much as you think. She might prefer a dirty man as opposed to a clean chap. A former lecturer once pointed out to us that when a man is too clean, the affair is bound to… Continue reading A Neat Freak and a Dirty
5 Controversial Topics to Avoid on a First Date
Controversy is good for the news and click baits, but not just for a date, more so the first date. It is not the time to open your heart to controversial issues. Don’t buy that mainstream media advice that it is good to open up more. Yes, you will open up more with time, for… Continue reading 5 Controversial Topics to Avoid on a First Date
Are you Hard to get Through?
Do you have your walls up high? The brick walls. Don’t let your guard down. Let your hair down. Are you a tough nut to crack? I am not easy to get to. Are you hard to please? Come harder, this won’t be easy. These are common phrases that describe difficult people or rather those… Continue reading Are you Hard to get Through?
The Healing Power of Tantric Massage
I came across Lingam massage as I was writing about therapy for a client of mine, and I thought about its magical healing power for men. Tantric massage, also called lingam massage, involves stimulating male genitals, not to achieve orgasmic pleasure but to free men off sexual shame. It can also help heal sexual traumas,… Continue reading The Healing Power of Tantric Massage
The Gates are Open
Since Bill and Melinda Gates filed for a divorce the other day, everyone is claiming to be open to a relationship with one of them. Their DMs are finally opened for the gold rush. Everyone wants to enter those gates. I didn’t know ladies like Bill gates like that. He is very old, to begin… Continue reading The Gates are Open
The Average Joe (the man you don’t want to be)
Don’t be that guy is a common phrase among men when advising each other, but the one guy you don’t want to be is the average Joe. For ladies, it is the plain Jane. The normal chic. When the blog was new my bio read “I am your boy next door”. And for sure, I… Continue reading The Average Joe (the man you don’t want to be)
Tough Guy Vibe (How to Create one)
It is good being a super tough guy. Men will tremble in front of you, and women will weaken in your presence. Okay, not necessarily, especially for the latter; women are attracted to powerful men, not necessarily tough guys. Being a tough man is suitable for the former reason. Men will think twice before trying… Continue reading Tough Guy Vibe (How to Create one)
